Ohio Columbus Mission February 2013 to June 2013
Ohio Cincinnati Mission July 2013 to February 2015

Sunday, December 1, 2013

Few Things I've Learned on My Mission


This week is transfer week but Me and Elder Gibb are staying here in the great Kentucky! There are two other elders in our branch. Elder Prach, who has been here for 2 weeks, and Elder Carranza, who has been here for a year. Who is getting transferred? Elder Prach of course. It's crazy that Elder Carranza is staying here, pretty unheard of to be here for this long. He feels like he's worked and done everything he knows how to in this area but apparently there's still more for him here. I'm super happy to stay here. We have a sweet apartment and are one of the only remaining Spanish elders to have a car. The mission has been swelling and there aren't nearly enough cars to go around. Most areas share a car. But more than anything I really love the members. They are so fun, such incredible people. They are all pretty new to the gospel as well. As I've mentioned before, almost every single one of them are recent converts. So we have to basically teach the branch how to run church meetings and fulfill their callings. Lot's of work but lot's of rich blessings.

I feel like I'm saying the same thing every week but we really did have another good week again.

The nature of our work is basically morning schedule (exercise, shower, eat, studies for 4 hours: Personal study, companionship, 12 week training program, language study), afternoons (afternoons are hard - no one is home because Hispanics work hard non stop) and then nights, (which are super busy because that's when everyone finally gets home). We spend most of our time in trailer parks and apartment complexes.  There are 3 member families in our area that we see a couple times throughout the week and a couple less active families as well. We haven't had to do too much tracting because we've been working out of the area book, a book of records of the history of the area. We are learning that basically EVERY Hispanic is related to each other. So the trick here will be to just convert one of them and then all of them will convert :) We're working on building up our investigator pool and we've been doing well finding new gators, the trick is just finding the ones that are going to progress in the gospel. Yeah, we're doing well.  Elder Gibb is a good elder and we're working well together.

Dad requested I list a few things I've learned on my mission; here are a few!

Basic Survival: Ironing clothes, washing clothes, cooking. I wish I knew how to sew better :(

Revelation. There are several different ways we get it (scriptures, prayer, church...) but it always stems from the spirit. That's something I began to learn in the MTC, the spirit is a real guide that can give us counsel and comfort in the form of impressions upon the heart and mind. As we follow those impressions of the spirit, we can recognize God's hand more fully in our lives and revelation becomes easier to recognize and more clear. But we have to take the initiative. Notice the pattern of the scripture "ask, and ye shall receive, knock, and it shall be opened unto you".  Heavenly Father is anxiously waiting to bless us and direct us, but He is waiting for us to first act and "Ask' and "Knock". The Bible dictionary also says some interesting things about Prayer, how it is a channel of revelation and certain blessings are only revealed through prayer.

That's another thing I've learned: Prayer and Fasting are powerful. I don't have time to expound on all of these right now but I've come to love praying and fasting.

Temples truly are Houses of the Lord. I haven't been able to go on my mission so I'm grateful I went as many times as I did before I left. Memories of the temple burn in my mind like a spiritual punch to the face. Mom and Dad, I vividly remember the sealing room with you the Saturday before I left.

My first few transfers in the field I learned of the importance and blessing of the Priesthood. Priesthood Power is real and amazing. I certainly have a testimony that it is God given authority for the blessing of His children. How blessed we were and are that dad always lived worthy of the priesthood so that we could have it in our home.

Gift of tongues is real. I know Heavenly Father has helped me learn Spanish. I still have lots to learn but a year ago I never would have imagined that I'd be speaking another language like I am.

There is a beautiful chapter in Preach My Gospel called "Christ like Attributes". I feel like I've particularly been learning Charity, Faith, and Patience. Throughout my Mission I know Heavenly Father has and will continue to provide me the companions, members, and experiences I need to be molded into a more Christ like Disciple.

I've learned that God wants everything you have - heart, might, mind, strength, faith, choices, thoughts, words, time, talents, and desires. He created us, and He knows what He wants us to become.

I sure am grateful for the home and family I come from. I know I don't have to worry about you. You have the gospel in your lives. Things won't ever be easy all the time but you have the foundation of spiritual truth you need to overcome anything. I love that I'm here, with the opportunity to dedicate all that I am to bringing peace into the lives of the people here. I really feel blessed, really, really blessed.

Well have an awesome Thanksgiving!!! Elder Gibb and I will celebrate all the holidays together (My birthday, Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Years!). Elder Gibb is already singing Christmas songs. If you think for one minute that we're not going to do some serious caroling this December you're wrong!

Love, Elder Kevin Graf

Not many pictures this week....

But here is one of a banana that we've had in our apartment since our first week of the transfer! It's our third companion and we refuse to get rid of him.